Went to ENT.

He has no clue what's wrong with my mouth.
My hearing test showed severe hearing loss (threshold was 90 dbs in right, 60 in left)
he was going to put tubes in but the drum is so inflammed the tube wouldn't stay in with the mild pushing he was doing - he tried harder but it was too painful I will have them put in under general in 2 weeks
I can hear out of the one ear he did try since he put a hole in it, and it drained.
Sucky thing is it will heal in a few days and I'm screwed again.
My mouth is sore again but I have a rheumy appy on the 8th so maybe it won't get too bad before then.